Rolling Stones at 50: A work ethic to raise kids by? (+video)(Read article summary)
The Rolling Stones hit the stage 50 years ago and this mom loves their work ethic. After all, what can a poor boy do, 'cept sing for a rock 'n' roll band? For 50 years, and counting, she says, that's what they been doing. And they haven't been poor for at least the last 48.
This fact may make some people shudder and groan, not because being a grandparent is such a bad thing, but because baby boomers (and you know who you are), donāt want to admit to being any older than 29. But we are. A lot older than 29, and so are theĀ RollingĀ Stones. But never mind that.
TheĀ RollingĀ StonesĀ are on tour again and probably always will be. (This one is called āThe Stones ā 50 and Counting," and tonight HBO premieres the documentary "Crossfire Hurricane," which chronicles the band's start 50 years ago.) The Stones arenāt the ones who sang āhope I die before I get old.ā That was The Who (no Abbott and Costello jokes please). Ā
And theĀ RollingĀ StonesĀ didnāt say "never trust anyone over 30." That was said by a member of the free speech movement in 1964, and then co-opted by everyone including Bob Dylan and Madison Avenue.
So what did theĀ RollingĀ StonesĀ say? They asked the rhetorical question, what can a poor boy do, 'cept to sing for a rock 'n' roll band? And for 50 years and counting, thatās what they been doing. They havenāt been poor for at least the last 48 years, but thatās only because theyāve never stopped working. Ā And thatās what makes them so remarkable to me. Not their fountain of youth like antics, but their work ethic. They have never missed a performance. Not once.
Thatās impressive. They have never broken up. Thatās amazing.
Sure Bill Wyman quietly left the band in 1993, but that was after playing bass with them for over 20 years. Thatās more like taking early retirement than quitting. Mr. Wyman re-entered the work force four years later with his own more modest though eponymous band. Last month [October] after a 20 year hiatus, he performed again with theĀ RollingĀ Stones.The band was all smiles and hugs, and not just for the cameras. Mr. Jagger, Mr. Richards, Mr. Watts and Mr. Wood seemed genuinely delighted to be playing with their mate again.
And so what if Wymanās cohorts continue to rock on? So does Warren Buffett after all. I wonder if Buffett plays bass? Ā
When I was a kid, theĀ RollingĀ StonesĀ were the bad boys of rock and roll.The Beatles were the good guys. But it turns out that was only show biz, not reality. The Beatles did some pretty bad things, and yes so did theĀ Rolling Stones. But on balance theĀ RollingĀ StonesĀ have turned out to be more than just survivors.
It should be said that Paul McCartney and Ringo Starr are also much more than just survivors. They have continued to contribute to the musical scene. But they arenāt the Beatles anymore. TheĀ RollingĀ Stones, love them or not, are still TheĀ RollingĀ Stones. They are the good guys at least from my way of looking at it.
They continue to work and play, at the same time. They act like they are having fun, even if they arenāt, at least all the time. They do what professionals are supposed to do. They work hard, they show up, they honor their commitments, to their fans anyway, and to themselves. And they aim for and achieve excellence. Most days. Ā
Thatās saying a lot.
Forget if you can about their personal failings and foibles. Just look at the work. Or better still, listen to their music. Past, present, and future. Itās good, itās consistent, and itās never been more ā or less ā than what they said it was. Itās only rockānāroll. But I like it.
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