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Thanksgiving: Teaching gratitude is always in season

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(Read caption) Thanksgiving gratitude is not seasonal. Arabelle Broscious, 5, of Mount Carmel, Pa. participated in a candy collection Nov. 5 as part of Operation Gratitude, a program designed to send Halloween candy to US Armed Forces overseas as a way to say thanks.

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It's a little ironic that the season in which we give thanks and the one in which our children are making their holiday wish lists come so close together.

We try to give our children so much but sometimes forget to give them the greatest gift, the capacity to appreciate and to feel grateful. Without that, we can never give them enough. We may want to give them many things, but how do we do this and not give them a sense of entitlement?

This, like most aspects of parenting, is a fine balance.

Many of our own parents tried to make us feel grateful by pointing out the starving children in some far-off land. This strategy often resulted in us offering to send those children the horrible casserole or ugly tennis shoes. In spite of those responses, many of us grew up with far less than our children have but with a greater sense of enjoyment and appreciation.

Just a glance at the sea of media in which our children swim gives us a big hint as to how this happened. All around are material things that they (and we) are led to believe we must have – that we have a right to have. But there are little ways to swim against this tide.


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