Free Syrian Army fighters told the Monitor that bringing down President Assad trumps family ties, and that they are willing to fight, or even kill, brothers and cousins fighting for the regime.
It's been nearly a month since Abu Saddam, a rebel fighter, last spoke with his brother, who fights on the side of the regime as a special forces soldier in Damascus, Syria. They feared that the phone call was being monitored, so they spoke in code as Abu Saddam tried to gauge if his brother was prepared to defect and join him in the ranks of the rebels' Free Syrian Army (FSA).
At the time, Abu Saddam says, his brother sounded ready, but a month later his brother is still with the government.
"If my brother does not leave the Army, I swear I will kill him," says Abu Saddam, who asked to use his nickname for security reasons. "We are fighting people who are fighting against our Sunni religion and supporting a criminal regime that doesn't differentiate between fighters and women and children."
Like many FSA fighters on the front lines, Abu Saddam describes his commitment to toppling the Assad regime as a quest more important than family. The Syrian uprising has devolved into a bloody civil war, pitting brother against brother, dividing families and communities in a way that may leave scars lasting long after the fighting ends.
For much of the uprising, Aleppo, a bastion of pro-Assad supporters, remained relatively quiet. But when fighting finally erupted there in late July, the city became the center of the conflict, tearing families apart.
In Aleppo's Old City, Abu Mohammad (also a nom de guerre), the leader of a local FSA unit, says his troops are mostly battling pro-government militias. Many of the men in his unit, the Grandsons of Saladin, grew up in the city and say they have friends and family who are still loyal to the government.