7 stories from Andy Cohen's new memoir

In his new memoir 'Most Talkative,' the Bravo executive and host recounts everything from high school to crazy experiences on his talk show.

7. Reunion strategies

The cast of 'Real Housewives of Orange County' Evan Agostini/AP

Cohen routinely hosts the reunion specials that are filmed after a season of one of the "Real Housewives" series, and frequently, he says he has to ask a question multiple times to get any kind of answer from a cast member. "To say I never take any joy or glee in the drama would be as much of a lie as these ladies sometimes try to get away with," he wrote. "So, no matter what, if I see a Housewife getting mad, I'm going to keep poking at her. If I see her get emotional, and I see an in, I'll keep going down that road. That's my job. Sometimes I even have to evoke Dan Rather, picking the threads of a story apart until I unravel the shroud and find some truth hidden beneath – okay, maybe I'm taking myself a little too seriously here."

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