'French Twist': 6 stories from an American mom's try at Gallic parenting

Mom Catherine Crawford took parenting tips from her French friends and decided to try them in her own home. Here, from her book "French Twist," are a few stories about what she learned.

3. Consideration for pregnant women

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A woman walks with her purchases past a line of customers waiting to pay in a J.C. Penney department store.

Crawford said a friend of hers moved to France right before she became pregnant and that her friend was very pleasantly surprised to find what special treatment she often received in stores and out in public. "The first time she got reamed was for lining up for the fitting rooms at a Parisian department store," Crawford wrote. "An older woman demanded of her, 'Why are you waiting in the queue? You are pregnant! You go to the front! It is your right! It is the law!'... After that, Ramona was more than happy to comply. She wrote enthusiastically: 'THIS ROCKS. I have four months left of this card, and... I am using every last one. Move over... I got twelve items on a seven item limit and I got a giant dressing room'... Meanwhile, as a massively pregnant woman I found myself crying on a crowded New York City subway because no one offered me a seat."

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